It said (among other things), "Anyway, sorry to bring up ancient unpleasantness, which you have no doubt graciously forgotten."
Hmmm . . . "graciously forgotten"? So, if I haven't forgot, I'm not gracious?
Well, color me ungracious, because this is one of my mottos in life: "Forgive but don't forget." (And eventually my memory of unpleasantness does start to fade, but not enough to make me stupid.
And I haven't even forgiven yet, so I'm a looooong way from forgetting.